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Minnesota child custody and parents' personal battles

When Minnesota parents go through a divorce, it can be hard to separate the arguments with an ex from their roles as parents. Consciously or not, many parents try to get their kids on their side, and against the other parent. This puts the child in a terribly awkward position, and in extreme cases it can lead to serious problems with child custody.

In an unusual case, a Minnesota family law court removed four of five children from the custody of both their parents after the parents' acrimonious divorce allegedly spilled over into their relations with their children. The parents were from wealthy backgrounds, but their divorce involved messy battles over money, complete with accusations of fraud and lying. Their child custody dispute is, perhaps, even uglier.

Minnesota same-sex marriage also means same-sex divorce

The first legal same-sex weddings in Minnesota will be held in August, and Minneapolis Mayor R.T. Rybak has said that he will personally officiate weddings on the first night that the weddings are available.

This is an exciting time for many Minnesotans, but in all the excitement, many would probably rather not talk about a related legal right that is perhaps just as important: divorce. When same-sex couiples can marry, they can also divorce. That will mean married same-sex couples who are splitting up will have to go through all the same legal hurdles as heterosexual couples, including the detailed work of property division.

Minnesota can suspend license when child support falls behind

When a Minnesota court orders one parent to make payments for the everyday expenses of raising their children, this order has the force of law behind it. When the paying parent fails to keep up with child support payments, the state can impose many penalties.

In a recent case, the Minnesota Court of Appeals ruled that one of these penalties can be to suspend the parent's driver's license. The ruling reversed an earlier decision by a lower court.

Efforts to reform alimony laws hit a roadblock

Minnesota residents who pay or receive spousal support may be reading with interest as other states consider overhauls of their laws in this area. As this blog recently observed, one state's legislature recently approved a massive overhaul of its alimony laws. However, the governor of that state vetoed the legislature's bill, shocking supporters and delighting many critics of the effort.

Florida's proposed measure was intended to end so-called permanent alimony. In Minnesota and most other states, courts decide whether alimony is necessary at the end of a marriage and decide the appropriate amount based upon a set of guidelines. The system, also called spousal support or spousal maintenance, is designed to ensure that one ex-spouse is not left destitute after a divorce, especially when one partner had significantly less income potential than the other.

Minnesota same-sex marriage, divorce and child custody

As Minnesota lawmakers consider legalizing same-sex marriage, supporters are talking a lot about love. And that's all well and good, but some of the most important rights that come with a legal marriage have to do with less romantic notions. Many of the benefits of marriage in Minnesota don't become apparent unless or until the couple goes through a divorce. Legalizing same-sex marriage would have profound implications for the breakups of same-sex couples when it comes to disputes over property division, child support and child custody.

In an unofficial domestic partnership, when the couple splits up, Minnesota courts do not require equitable distribution of property as they would at the end of a marriage. There is generally no alimony. If the couple has children but only one of the partners is a biological or adoptive parent, the other partner generally can't be ordered to pay child support, but neither does that partner have any rights of parenthood. The biological or adoptive parent would generally automatically have custody of the child and the other partner would have no rights of visitation and no right to protest the other partner's relocation with the child to another part of Minnesota or to another state. A partner who has helped raise a child would have no legal right to see the child again.

Divorce, property division and college savings accounts

When Minnesota couples decide to go through divorce, they must split up the assets, such as bank accounts and investments that they obtained during the marriage. This is the complicated process known as property division. It divides assets into three piles, one his, one hers and one that belongs to the marriage. The marital property must then be divided in a way that's considered fair under Minnesota law.

But what if some of those assets were supposed to go to the couple's children, for their education?

States consider overhaul of alimony laws

When Minnesota couples decide to end their marriage, often one partner has much lower income potential than the other. For example, one may have deferred a career to stay home with the children while the other became a well-paid banker. Even if they decide to split their assets equally, the banker still has the income potential of a banker while the other has the income potential of a stay-at-home parent - which is to say, not much.

It's for cases like these that Minnesota courts decide that alimony is in order. Also called spousal support or spousal maintenance, alimony is an obligation to provide support for the financial needs of an ex-spouse. The divorcing partners can come up with an agreement on their own for the court to approve, or the court can impose an alimony obligation based upon a set of guidelines.

Minnesota mother in international child custody dispute

Minnesota parents who have gone through a divorce or separation often go through a lot of work and conflict to set up a child custody agreement that meets the needs of both parents and the child. But if one parent must move, due to work, schooling or personal issues, relocation can throw a well-crafted agreement into chaos and lead to a new child custody dispute.

In an international child custody dispute, a Minnesota judge recently ruled that a Minnesota woman must return her 5-year-old daughter to the girl's father in Sweden. The American woman married a Swedish man while living in his country for eight years and the girl was born there. The couple later split up, and the two had joint custody of their daughter. When the mother met a Minnesota man online, she decided to move to Minnesota and marry the man.

Minnesota mulls changes to child custody laws

Minnesota parents who are married and live together often argue over issues of parenting time, such as who should help the kids with homework or pick them up at school. But when parents are divorced, or were never married, these arguments blend into much more serious matters of child custody.

Last year, Minnesota lawmakers were set to overhaul the state's child custody laws to make the default minimum amount of time each parent gets with a child 50 percent. That is, unless some other concern applied, a father would generally get custody half the time and a mother the other half. This move had strong support, especially from advocates of fathers' rights, who often claim that current child custody laws are biased toward mothers.

Minnesota child custody disputes and immigration status

When Minnesota courts decide child custody disputes, they generally presume that custody by a biological parent is in the best interests of the child. Ordinarily, they will only deny custody to a biological parent if the parent was deemed unfit or abandoned the child, if the child is in emotional or physical danger or there are other extraordinary circumstances.

According to a recent Minnesota Court of Appeals ruling, one factor the court should not consider as extraordinary in a child custody dispute is a biological parent's immigration status. The ruling reversed a lower court's decision in a case in which the grandparents of a 4-year-old girl sought sole custody of the child.

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